One thing that I found slightly awkward when I first started having casual sex was how to bring up the topic of safe sex. I went with the approach of bringing it up beforehand (if meeting for sex), so they know that is expected, and if they have any problem with it, then I wouldn’t … Continue reading Safe sex (bag up boys)
Really the title of this post is a wholly unfair, as by referring to myself (and any other woman who chooses to sleep around) as a “slut” is a gross injustice, and the whole basis and reason for me taking to my laptop. Since splitting with my husband in October I have slept with a … Continue reading Slut shaming
Faking it is a massive tool in a woman’s sexual armour. But it’s one I personally don’t use, and I don’t think women should reach for. When I was younger, I faked it all the time. For one, I hadn’t mastered the art of making myself come without the aid of a vibrator until I … Continue reading Faking it
I was asked out on a date (via Tinder). I hadn’t been on a date since I met my husband at the grand old age of 17. But having nothing better to do threw caution to the wind and decided to meet a handsome Junior Doctor in the city for drinks. We’d not really spoken … Continue reading Paging Dr Boring….
I actually drafted this post way back in October, but have been side tracked with a joyous bout of depression which started in November and only in the middle of January did I begin to feel sane again..... So I've Tindered hard since then, but this is where it all began. I downloaded Tinder. In today’s … Continue reading Hello Tinder.